Cookie Wiebe
Obituary
Cookie Wiebe, 57, life partner of husband, David Wiebe, died
on Monday morning (Oct. 31, 2011).
She was born on Feb. 1, 1954, in Newton, the youngest child
of Alfred G. and Clara Voth. She graduated from Newton High School in 1972 and
Bethel College in 1976. After marrying David in 1978 and starting a family,
Cookie chose to be a stay-at-home mom rather than starting on a career path.
During this time, Cookie did some part-time and lots of
volunteer work. From 1989 to 1992, Cookie and her family served with Mennonite
Central Committee (MCC) doing community development in Chad, Africa. Returning
to Newton, Cookie continued to work with MCC as workroom supervisor, which
inspired her later interest in human resource development (HRD).
From 1995 to 1999, Cookie and David worked at Woodstock
School in India. One of Cookie's roles was new staff coordinator which
furthered her interest in HRD. Upon returning from India, Cookie attended
Friends University, earning a master's degree in HRD. Cookie used her skills
and knowledge in several jobs, including another MCC term in North Newton as HR
director, wellness coordinator for Harvey County, and most recently interim HR
manager at Woodstock School. It was there a bit more than one year ago, that
Cookie was diagnosed with ovarian cancer which would ultimately be terminal.
Married 33 1/3 years, Cookie and Dave demonstrated their
strong faith and firm commitment to whole life stewardship. For their 25th
anniversary, Cookie and Dave purchased a tandem bike. They participated in
several BAK rides and two longer fund-raising trips to Mennonite Conventions in
North Carolina and California.
Given Cookie's propensity to document everything, either
photographically or journalistically, this past year she has inspired many with
her blogs ( www.charitableliving.net) about her disease and life convictions
and by sharing her fabulous photos taken on daily walks along Sand Creek bike
path. In her bucket list of things to do before she died, Cookie included two
things: an art gallery photography showing of her portraits taken of regular
people in India with whom she and Dave came into contact and to see the birth
of their first grandson. Both of these wishes were graciously granted.
In life, Cookie was an excellent teacher and public speaker,
passionate about many things, such as helping people overcome poverty and
injustice, and interested in great ideas and meaningful discussions. She loved
movies, especially foreign films with subtitles. She sought to live life
intentionally, with no regrets.
She will be especially missed in this life by husband, David
of Newton; daughter, Abra (husband, Phil Staffin) and new grandson, Cassius
Staffin-Wiebe of Minnesota; brother, John (wife, Colleen) of Derby; sister,
Birdie (husband, Tim Vander Molen) of Illinois; nieces, Amy Voth and Jane
Vander Molen; and nephews, David Voth and Tim Vander Molen Jr.
Cookie was preceded in death by daughter, Bethany Ann Wiebe,
and her parents. Cookie and Dave also belonged to an extraordinary Sunday
school class at First Mennonite in Newton, where they journeyed together with
others in their faith. Cookie will be sorely missed by this group of wonderful
friends and sojourners in life.
A visitation will be from 1 to 9 p.m. Wednesday at Petersen
Funeral Home in Newton. The family will receive friends from 6:30 to 8 p.m.
A funeral service will be at 10 a.m. Thursday at First
Mennonite Church in Newton. That afternoon, a burial will be at First Mennonite
Church Cemetery in Beatrice, Neb.
A memorial has been set up for Peace Connections/Circles of
Hope, in care of Petersen Funeral Home, 215 Main St., Newton, KS 67114. Visit www.petersenfamilyfuneralhome.com.
1954 - 2011 (57 years)