Dr. Marvin Joseph Parrish
Newton - Dr. Marvin Joseph Parrish - clinical psychologist,
college professor, jokester, and Kenny Rogers doppelganger - has left the
building.
Marvin was born on January 26, 1942, in Wichita, Kansas.
After 79 years of wonderful living, making the best of his final years with
Parkinson's Disease, Marvin passed away on July 9, 2021 in Newton, Kansas. He
was surrounded by his loving wife and daughters.
Marvin Parrish was a farm boy, a dog lover, a class clown,
and an exemplary student. He served as Student Body President of Oklahoma
Christian College, where he earned a bachelor's in English in 1964 and pranked
his dorm mates by short-sheeting their beds. Marvin also earned degrees in
Philosophy and Religion and Psychology from Wichita State and Washington
University in St. Louis. He was the first intern to pursue clinical
neuropsychology at the University of Indiana, where it was developed. Dr.
Parrish had a long career as a therapist, holding rare specialties in hypnosis.
He was the owner and operator of the McPherson and Newton Psychological Service
Centers. After serving on-staff at several other mental health institutions, he
retired in 2012. White-bearded Marvin also enjoyed a long "acting
career," pretending to be Santa Claus for the many children who saw him in
the street and suspected he was Kris Kringle incognito.
Marvin treasured his wife of 52 years, Kathryn Salmon
Parrish. He took every opportunity to proclaim she was the most beautiful woman
in the world. Marvin's many hobbies included watching Kansas college basketball
teams, gardening and planting trees, playing card games Rook and Skip-Bo,
eating Super Supreme pizza, drinking milkshakes and Pepsi, listening to the Oak
Ridge Boys, teasing everyone he met, and driving his electric orange Porsche
914 convertible. He put his beautiful baritone voice to use in barbershop
quartets, and sang to his older daughter, Angela, who is now a songwriter and
music producer. Marvin's love of justice and equity lives on in the career of
his younger daughter, Abbey, who is a paralegal for Legal Aid. Marvin had to
wait 44 years to become a father, and he cherished his girls every day.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Lee and Viola, and
infant sister Janet Fern. He lives on in the memories of his wife, Kathy,
daughter Angela Parrish and son-in-law Dave Richards, daughter Abbey Parrish,
brother and sister-in-law, Paul and Linda Parrish, and many cousins, nieces,
nephews, and friends. He also lives on in the positive trajectory of the lives
of those he helped as a therapist.
A memorial service will be held Wednesday, July 14, at 11am
at Petersen Funeral Home, 215 N Main St, in Newton. A memorial has been established
with The Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson's Research, Petersen Funeral
Home.
His family thanks his doctor, Randall Goering, who helped
him live a quality life with Parkinson's for 15 years. Marvin was relentlessly
positive. He frequently spoke about how his life with Parkinson's was still
blessed. When a person is disabled in some way, they alone determine their
quality of life. His family is heartbroken that the doctor is out, but they are
celebrating his rich and full life. So have a milkshake or plant a tomato seed
in his honor. And take heart in his wonderful words - "Who I am and who
I'll be is, for the most part, up to me."
