Shirley Ann (Scherer) Carper, age 87,
passed away peacefully in her sleep on June 1, 2022 at her home in
North Newton, Kansas.
Admirably, Shirley blessed others by
placing primary importance on the bonds of family and friendship.
Shirley is survived by her loving husband of nearly 60 years, Dr.
Owen E. Carper, their four children, and ten adoring grandkids.
Shirley was born at her family home in
Kansas City, Kansas on January 14, 1935, to German immigrant parents:
John Henry and Anna Elisabeth (Scholl) Scherer. Growing up as a
first generation American during the WWII years, she was blessed by
her loyal close-knit family consisting of her younger brother,
Johnny, and three older sisters: Doris, Hildegard, and Ellen Rose.
Along with her family, she attended a Swedish Covenant church and
dedicated her life to Christ at her neighborhood Bible Club.
She was loved by her Aunt Lena and
Uncle Otto who lived in their Kansas City neighborhood. Otto lovingly
called Shirley Gruschtela which means ?little crust.? Shirley?s
loyalty extended not only to her family, but also to her circle of
lifelong friends. The bonds that began in grade school carried them
through Rosedale High School and into their golden years. The
surviving ?Rosedale Lunch Bunch? gals continue to meet monthly.
In 1956, Shirley graduated from the
Swedish Covenant Hospital School of Nursing in Chicago. Upon
graduation, she returned to Kansas City and practiced nursing at KU
Medical Center. It was there that she met a handsome young medical
student named Owen Carper. After church one Sunday, he famously
asked her, ?How ?bout a cup of coffee, Shirl?? They were
destined to share coffee for a lifetime. After that first date,
there were many more. Getting caught in a rainstorm at Starlight
Movie Theater, Owen and Shirley grasped hands while running to
shelter. Shirley described the thrill of that moment as ?the
feeling of coming home.? They married on June 12, 1962. The
following year, Nicholas arrived.
Shirley?s nursing career carried Owen
through medical school, residency and his years serving in Public
Health as a doctor for Native American tribes in New Mexico and
Arizona. It was at this point that the first severe trial of grief
confronted them. In the space of two years, they lost two infant
children. Annie lived to be three days old and Matthew lived nearly
four months. Being a twin to Matthew, baby John brought them both
joy and consolation. The following year God blessed them with
healthy baby Amanda, and the year after that baby Susan arrived to
complete their family.
In the early 1970?s, the Carper
family made their home in Newton, Kansas where Shirley dedicated
herself in supporting her husband and children. Her widowed father
moved in with the family. Shirley and Owen provided and cared for
Grandpa Scherer for over twenty years. Shirley developed her knack
for ?cheerful hospitality?, welcoming her cherished nephews,
nieces, and friends for meals and even extended stays. Shirley loved
staying at home and sewing beautiful clothing for herself and her
daughters, as well as countless Raggedy Ann dolls and classic Teddy
bears for children everywhere. Her artistic talents were refined in
her many years of making fine hooked wool rugs.
Shirley gradually succumbed to dementia
but maintained her sweet nature and lived at her home to the end
because of the loving support of her family and the compassionate
care of her stellar CNAs and her wonderful hospice friends.
Funeral services will be held at 2:00
P.M., Friday (June 3, 2022) at the Grace Community Church in Newton,
where the casket will be open prior to service time.
Interment will be in the Greenwood
Cemetery in Newton.
A memorial has been established with
Children?s Haven International, contributions may be sent to
Broadway Colonial Funeral Home, 120 E. Broadway, Newton, Ks. 67114.
Arrangements are by Broadway Colonial
Funeral Home, Newton, Ks.
1935 - 2022 (87 years)